Opinions – We All Have Them

Opinions – We All Have Them

by Sherry Chamblee

Some of them are right, some are wrong. But one thing we all like to do is share them.  

We share our opinion on whether someone made a right or wrong choice, what someone’s motives were, how they could have done it better.  For the most part, these days, those opinions are shared on social media and are directed at news stories, or some sort of current event that everyone’s talking about. We often even get asked directly about our opinions on these things, even though it won’t change a thing.  

I do it too. I want people to know my opinion of things just as much as anyone else does.  

But you know, sometimes my opinion doesn’t matter. Sometimes it has no bearing, and will help nothing in the situation if I share it. Sometimes I’ve shared my opinion anyway…maybe we all have.  

Our society right now is teaching us to give our opinion on every little thing – and every big thing – as if our opinion can and will actually make any difference.  

We share these opinions as if we know – as if we have all the information and every right to make a judgment.  

One thing I’ve learned is that usually the truth of a matter is a shade between the two sides of the story being told. One might be more right than the other, but that doesn’t mean they aren’t spinning it their direction just a little too.  

James 3:6 King James Version (KJV) 

6 And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell.

We take too much upon ourselves. We decide we have the right to our opinion, which we do, but then we decide we also have to inflict that opinion upon everyone else around us.  

It’s ok to have an opinion – but I think we all need to take a step back and determine whether or not we need to share that opinion. 

Sometimes we just have to ask ourselves if it’s necessary to say it out loud. You know? I mean, sometimes fires are beneficial, but oftentimes they’re incredibly destructive. The fire that a tongue can start is most often an unchecked wildfire rather than something that purifies.  

Some things are better left said only to God in prayer.

About the Author:

Sherry Chamblee

Sherry grew up in various cities around northern and central California. This gave her all sorts of stories that sat and festered in her brain, waiting to be let loose. She eventually went to college in Wisconsin, where she met her equally frenetic husband, Rich. They have six (yes, count them) children, two dogs and a cat, and currently reside in a madhouse in the southern California area. As a family, they enjoy being active in their local church. Sherry spends her time writing when not caring for Granny, the kids, the dogs, the cat and any number of strays in the neighborhood.

Sherry Chamblee can be found at http://www.sherrychamblee.weebly.com Or check out her books at http://www.amazon.com/Sherry-Chamblee/e/B00BA06RJ2/

Email Marketing by TrafficWave.net

Speak Your Mind


Email Marketing by TrafficWave.net