The Lies We Believe

The Lies We Believe

by Sherry Chamblee

We convince ourselves of so many things. We want to believe certain things, so we gather evidence that supports what we want to think. Then we sit and look at our shiny little bits of evidence and sit secure in our little world of self-delusion. 

We then exclude anything and anyone who challenges those beliefs.  

We say we’re against falsehoods. We say we want people to be real with us, but when it comes down to it, we don’t want to believe anything that contradicts us. We don’t want “reality” unless it’s our reality.

Thing is, God is not afraid of contradicting us. God will tell us when we’re wrong, and God will not apologize if you don’t like it.

On the other hand, we always know where we stand with God. He doesn’t leave subtle hints making us wonder if perhaps we’ve let Him down. He doesn’t turn a cold shoulder or ignore us when we talk in order to passively get His point across. He doesn’t mess around and make a rift in the relationship drag on and on.  

He takes care of things. He confronts us when we need it, and then He moves on with us.

The problem is we have a hard time hearing God talking to us because we don’t want to believe something that contradicts our view of ourselves. We don’t want to believe that we failed. We don’t want to believe that God could be confronting us because we did something wrong. We don’t want to believe we aren’t the perfect Christian.

And because we don’t want to hear it, we can miss God’s healing chastisement. Because you cannot be healed until you’ve listened to God’s correction, acknowledged He’s correct, and taken that next step with Him.

So what are we going to do? Insist we’re all right and don’t need God’s correction? Continue to live in self-delusion, pretending we’re above failure? 

Or admit our shortcoming, listen to God, and let Him move us forward?

It’s not failure to admit we’ve failed. It’s only failure if we refuse to get right with God.

About the Author:

Sherry Chamblee

Sherry grew up in various cities around northern and central California. This gave her all sorts of stories that sat and festered in her brain, waiting to be let loose. She eventually went to college in Wisconsin, where she met her equally frenetic husband, Rich. They have six (yes, count them) children, two dogs and a cat, and currently reside in a madhouse in the southern California area. As a family, they enjoy being active in their local church. Sherry spends her time writing when not caring for Granny, the kids, the dogs, the cat and any number of strays in the neighborhood.

Sherry Chamblee can be found at http://www.sherrychamblee.weebly.com Or check out her books at http://www.amazon.com/Sherry-Chamblee/e/B00BA06RJ2/

Aw, God, Do I Have To?

Aw, God, Do I Have To?

by Suzanne D. Williams

Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? (22) Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven. (Mt 18:21-22)

I had a bad day. You know, one of those where even the dog doesn’t cooperate? Well, ‘round about 10 a.m., I exploded. I screamed at everyone within a two-mile vicinity. And regretted it afterward.

You know the drill. “I should never have … and now they will always think of me like …”

Regret is a good thing, though, because it got me thinking about forgiveness and repentance. “Lord,” I said, in a sort of prayer, “Seventy times seven is REALLY hard to do.”

It looks good on paper. As Christians, we should be all “turn the other cheek,” “love the unlovely,” etcetera. Except I’ve seen anger and offense creep into the church. Someone lit into me the other day over something trivial, and I was taken aback. But struck harder by the thought I was supposed to pray for them and move on.

And I don’t mean pray they’ll trip.

The Bible says, “Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.” (Rm 12:19) We love to quote that, picturing lightning bolts striking someone and God up there beating his chest, “Bwahaha!” Truth is, He’s more apt to show them mercy if they’ll receive it.

Fixing the other person is not our job.

I heard speaker, Joyce Meyer, say she spent years trying to fix her husband, Dave, only to realize it didn’t work and she was the only one who was miserable. This helped me with my own relationships. I am apt to blow up first then swim in my regret for several days. But if I let God handle the one who’s antagonizing me, if my prayer is, “Give me a clean heart, O God,” and not, “Let Sister So-and-so stump her toe,” I can place myself in the Holy Spirit’s control and overcome those awful moments.

Overcome them and defeat them. Because God’s instructions to us are tougher than simply not fighting back. God said to forgive “seventy times seven,” then He said to “Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you.” (Mt 5:44) 

“Aw, God, do I have to?”

Yep. And notice, all of those things require ACTION on our part. To DO GOOD we must actually DO something. To BLESS someone, to PRAY for them, we must speak peaceful words. To show God’s love we must be the antithesis of everything our flesh and mind asks us to do. I heard a preacher say, “The nose doesn’t have to associate with the armpit,” referring to the body of Christ. So, take comfort that your prayer doesn’t mean you have to spend a day with Mr. Grumpy, it does mean we must seek to react differently. To actually crucify our flesh. (Gal 5:24)

And become like Jesus, who loved the least of men, but faced the devil in faith and power and won. We grow strong in Christ. Strong enough to love when, at that moment, it’s the last … the hardest thing we will ever do.

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CrossReads Book Spotlight: A Chance Mistake

CrossReads Book Spotlight: A Chance Mistake

CrossReads Book Spotlight

A Chance Mistake

by Jackie Zack

A Chance Mistake

A Vacation Takes a Funny Turn –

By the flip of a coin, famous novelist, Kory Slate travels to Wales intent on finding rest and relaxation. His latest best seller has left him freaked out, and he begins to suspect that he’s being followed. Is he the target of a nefarious scheme? Has his money-making imagination veered out of control?

An array of Kory’s books in a Welsh bookstore window pulls him into the shop to browse. He is astonished to meet Dafina Perry, the living image of a female character in his last book. As his vacation progresses down its unusual track, he finds himself inexplicably and somewhat humorously entangled in her family drama.

Dafina, struggling with betrayal and potential loss, worries about the welfare of the handsome, brilliant novelist. Will helping him bring unexpected love and happiness to her life? Or will her good intentions invoke destruction for them both?

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CrossReads Short Takes: The Surrogate & Claddaugh

CrossReads Short Takes: The Surrogate & Claddaugh

CrossReads Short Takes

The Surrogate

by Patricia Bell

The Surrogate

All she has to do is sign her name on the dotted line to become $100,000 richer. For the first time in her life, nineteen-year-old Emily Calhoun’s dreams are within reach. Her wealthy employers want a child and she’s in a position to help.
But when complications arise in the pregnancy, Emily finds herself in a situation beyond her control. And a moral dilemma that eats away at her conscience.
She thought she was doing the right thing… a good thing…until it all went wrong.

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Claddaugh

by Tammy Doherty

Claddaugh

~ A Christian Historical/Western Romance

Leigh Latham dreamed of marrying a man of wealth. When she chooses money over love, she turns her back on family and friends. But life doesn’t go quite as Leigh planned.

When the dream becomes a nightmare, Leigh flees Philadelphia. With nowhere else to go, she returns to the friends she left behind. Can she possibly hope to find forgiveness?

Marshal Rory Johnston thought he was over Leigh. Now he isn’t so sure they can be just friends. Is Leigh hiding something, running from someone? Can he protect her and his heart at the same time?

Will history repeat itself? Or can loyal friendship grow into a love to last a lifetime?

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Thankful, Grateful, Blessed

Thankful, Grateful, Blessed

by Rebekah Beene

What a cold night we’ve had. We’re waking up to 22 degrees according to my phone weather app.  It’s probably colder in the valley areas.  With the slight wind we have the temperature actually feels like 13 degrees! Brrrr.  Do I enjoy this weather? Nope.  But I have a choice. Either curse the cold. Or be thankful for the heater that has run a lot overnight.  I’m grateful that God has seen fit to bless us with a warm house.

Oh beloved, don’t allow the winter doldrums to take over your life.  Especially when Christmas is over it’s tough not to give in to the melancholy. Wishes for something other than what you have had can slide into your heart like cold air under the door.  Chilling your heart to the bone because the enemy can convince you that you should have done more, you could have enjoyed more, you would have had it better “if only…”

God wants you to know this morning that He has given you the heart of a warrior – one who can fight the enemy’s lies by being thankful, cultivating gratefulness and realizing just how blessed you are.  Sure, none of us has a perfect life, but we are in Christ and that makes for a wonderful life even in the midst of the less than perfect things we deal with. You are not the sum total of what’s wrong with your life. You are the multiplication of God’s richest blessings. You don’t have to face anything alone. You don’t have to give up hope even when you see no answers to your prayers. You aren’t waiting for the next bad thing to happen. You are living in the Glory of the Lord. You have the warmth of His Presence regardless of what’s going on. You are more than a conqueror through Christ.

God loves you and He’s for you.  Hug up to the truth and let it warm your heart. Rejoice, beloved, that nothing can defeat you because God is for you! And live thankful, grateful and blessed because you belong to Christ and have all you need in the Light of His Mercy and Grace!

John 14:27 Peace I leave with you; My peace I give to you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled; do not be afraid.

Jonah 2:9 But I will offer sacrifices to you with songs of praise, and I will fulfill all my vows. For my salvation comes from the LORD alone.

Ephesians 1:3 All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms because we are united with Christ.

About the Author:

Rebekah Beene

In a Christian Women’s meeting in 1983, Rebekah was given a prophetic message that she would write books. Several years ago she began writing stories about special holiday memories and travels, sharing God’s love and care through each story. God has gifted Rebekah with the ability to look at the natural and see the supernatural. Both Rebekah and her husband Danny have a heart to share the Gospel and the riches of life in Christ to everyone they meet. They have served in the local church and in ministry to motorcyclists. Danny is an ordained minister and they both have been Bible study teachers for many years. Rebekah also speaks at women’s retreats and conferences. Her tag line says it all “God loves you and He’s for you”.

My website is http://rebekahbeene.wordpress.com

My first book in print is Oh Beloved! Live in the Light of His Word.
Link to buying the book via paypal is on the website.
As well a link to purchasing the ebook on Amazon is there too.
I’m also on twitter @rebekahbeene, tumblr http://rebekah-beene.tumblr.com/
and of course facebook as Rebekah Beene (Warren) I included my maiden name for old friends.